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Ashling Murphy’s mother Kathleen Murphy, father Raymond Murphy, brother Cathal Murphy and sister Amy Murphy comfort one another as they attend a candle lit vigil near the scene of her murder in Tullamore (Charles McQuillan\/Getty Images)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The town of Tullamore gathered together on Friday evening as a vigil was held for Ashling Murphy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Garda\u00ed are continuing to hunt for the killer of the 23-year-old, who was found dead on Wednesday after going for a run on the banks of the Grand Canal in the Co Offaly town.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thousands of people made their way to Town Park on the edge of Tullamore, pledging to send \u201csolidarity and support\u201d to Ms Murphy\u2019s family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

During the hour-long vigil, people cried, clutched candles, and quietly clapped as prayers were said and music was played.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As the light dimmed on Friday evening, traditional Irish music \u2013 played by friends and former teachers of Ms Murphy \u2013 formed the centerpiece of the service.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Attracta Brady, who was Ms Murphy\u2019s first fiddle teacher, played alongside other somber performers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She described her prot\u00e9g\u00e9 as a \u201cfabulous musician\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ms Brady also taught Ms Murphy at the Sacred Heart girls\u2019 secondary school, where they played together in the traditional music group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The musicians played two tunes at the vigil that Ms Murphy would have performed with the trad group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cShe was the most beautiful girl inside and out,\u201d Ms Brady said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cShe was a parent\u2019s dream. She was everything you\u2019d want in a daughter. She had integrity, she was honest, she was trustworthy. She was quirky and a little bit cheeky sometimes with the loveliest smile, and she\u2019d get away with it because she had this beautiful twinkly smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cShe was never in bad humor, she was always smiling, and she absolutely loved her fiddle. Her parents only told me yesterday that she never had to be told to practice. She was bright and energetic and everybody loved her.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prayers were said for the family, friends, and pupils of Ms Murphy, as well as for all women who have suffered violence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A local priest, Father Joe Gallagher, addressed the vigil before calling for a minute\u2019s silence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He told the gathering, which was attended by all the main religious groups in the area: \u201cWe remember her heartbroken family, her colleagues in work, in music, in sport, in friendship and her young pupils in first class who loved their teacher.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThis is a time of grief beyond words. We need to be together. We need to support one another in this dark time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe stand together, united with groups all over our country, and indeed beyond, united with women who fear and know the trauma of violence. United in grief, in anger, in shock.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIn this dark evening we want to hold a light in our hands, to stand together in solidarity with one another to share our tears and deep grief. Time to pray, to reflect, to listen, to be together.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women at the vigil spoke of their anger and fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Roslyn Kavanagh, who works in Tullamore, said: \u201cI feel that this shouldn\u2019t happen at all in society. And as a woman, I have felt, in places, insecure and vulnerable and as a woman I should not feel like that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She said the attack prompted her to share her experiences with her husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe was shocked and annoyed that he knew I felt like that,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI feel society needs to put an end to this and stop this.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Roslyn was there with her friend Chloe Galvin, who said: \u201cI, too, am a young woman in my 20s. I have walked that canal line many a time by myself, with friends and family. It is one thing you never think about being out in daylight: is someone going to attack me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe are taught as young women, on nights out, you stay with your friends. You never leave them, you text them to make sure they get home safe. Now we\u2019re going to be expected to do that in daylight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNow we have a plan in work that we\u2019re all going to walk each other to our cars and make sure everyone is okay, and have a group chat (asking), \u2018Have you gotten home OK?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt shouldn\u2019t be like that. The reason why I\u2019m here is that it is time for women to make a stand and go, \u2018No more, we\u2019re done\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe have to be treated equally to men.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Twins Nora Viret and Johanne Viret said their sister was \u201cquite friendly\u201d with Ms Murphy, and said she was \u201creally helpful and really welcoming\u201d when they moved from France.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Things have changed in the town since the attack, both agreed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They said they were \u201cparanoid at all times now\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The vigil heard a poem specially written for Ashling by local woman Sinead Cullen, who wrote: \u201cThere is a light that will shine for you, through every hour, sky black or blue.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ms Murphy\u2019s grieving parents Kathleen and Ray, and her sister Amy and brother Cathal, linked arms as they attended a separate candlelit vigil later in the evening near the spot where the teacher was killed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a tribute to his youngest daughter, Ray Murphy played her favorite song, When You Were Sweet Sixteen on the banjo.<\/p>\n

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